Out of the loop

Generated image of someone cut out of a group
To be out of the loop means not being included in information or decisions that other people know about. A person who is out of the loop does not know what is going on.

The expression likely comes from the idea of a communication loop or chain where information passes between people. If someone is outside that loop, the information never reaches them.

I was out of the loop about the plan until someone mentioned it at lunch.